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Welcome

Thanks for visiting.  This site sort-of documents my journey through six decades of life.  -I hope you'll find some humor, some useful resources and , most importantly [to me], some thought-provoking ideas to mull over. 

Connect the Dots

Dots? Tails?

The story behind this website.

When I was in high school, I fell victim to a good-natured prank -the type common amongst peers around 15 years old at the time. The prank was presented something like this:

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A friend approached me and said, "I bet I can show you two dots that are very different but you won't be able to tell the difference between them."  Believing I was at least reasonably intelligent, I took the bet -not that anything was actually on the line except the "proof" of my intelligence. 

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The props to demonstrate this test involved my arm and an ink pen. I held out my arm after which my friend placed two dots on my arm, like a colon :  Then I was asked to describe the difference between the two dots.  Of course, there was none -which I stated with great certainty.  Then, with a smirky grin, my prankster said "Ah, but this one has a TAIL!" while simultaneously placing the pen on the upper dot and drawing a six-inch line from the dot toward the elbow.  Of course, now I had a long line on my arm in ink for the rest of the day. 

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Read more about me to find out how this goofy prank from years ago turned into this website.

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Hi, I'm Steve

I'm going to introduce myself by starting with the punch line, "labels" that will get you into the neighborhood as to who I am: But don't make the mistake of thinking these labels completely define me -I think you might be surprised. I will take the time to get to know you if you'll afford me the same respect. Fair enough?

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I am an evangelical Christian, partly due to parental guidance, then later by soul-searching, study, and choice. But my story is not smooth; I hope you'll hang around and check out my posts for more on this roller-coaster I call "life in the dot".  For a summary of my journey, check Me In A Nutshell below.

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THE POINT

I now intentionally believe that the Bible is God's word to mankind. While I don't understand all  [much??] of what it says, nor why it says it or how it could be, I nonetheless believe it to be true; despite numerous questions.  Because I believe, I intend to share thoughts about life on this "dot" (Earth) and possible consequences thereafter (the Tail).  

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Therefore, proper warning: If you just cannot wrap your head around the possibility that a Creator GOD dynamically cares about humankind, and has provided oversight for the construction of an"instruction manual" that covers 3 thousand years plus of human history, then this site will likely not appeal to you for very long.  

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BUT

if you foster an open mind, feel any glimmer of a spiritual "pull", then stick around for polite discourse and sharing of stories, ideas, and so on. I look forward to your feedback.

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ME  IN  A  NUTSHELL

1960's

Elementry School Years

1970's 

  • Public High School

  • BS in Geology degree,

  • University of Alabama

1980's

  • Oil field work, Gulf Coast

  • Non-degree Biblical Studies

  • Worked for small Oil Company

 1990's | 2000's | 2010's

  • Small Oil Company

  • AD, Computer Programming

  • Various IT-related jobs 

Today

Retired 

Typical, kinda "nerdy" kid. 

Mom took sisters and myself to a Methodist church -Dad didn't go to church much then. I don't remember having a vote :)

  • Switched from mom's Methodist church to dad's Assembly of God church; professed belief in Jesus Christ and thereafter was baptized. 

  • Graduated in the top 10 from high school, focused mostly on science. 

  • Undergrad degree in Geology with Psych minor. Some rough semesters; some good ones. Roll Tide! :)

  • After graduation, I began working in the oil field.

  • The older I got, my "christian behavior" suffered.

  • After working a couple of years in the oil field along the gulf coast, I felt impressed to pursue biblical studies in order to further explore my personal faith journey which had begun in high school

  • Then I went back to work in the oil field for an oil exploration / production company. Again, my spiritual health slowly declined. 

  • But then I met my wife [now of 40 years], had a child, and recommitted to following Jesus. Again. 

After working for a time as a geologist, I pursued a computer programming degree which led to a career in IT: This both served me well but also presented problems for me over the next 20+ years [more on the problems in later posts]. 

  • I retired from IT a few years ago.

  • I became very involved in local church & volunteer work

  • Then... COVID arrived. Need I say more?

  • Now I am a caregiver for my wife of 40 years, a father of one, and a decisive -yet still very flawed- follower of Christ. 

Me In A Nutshell

Of Dots and Tails

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